You see, we live in the part of the world where your maternal and paternal families will combine with your entire village people to either attack you for posting on your hard earned Facebook wall, question why you take certain actions cum feel you owe them the responsibility of solving their generational problem.
Nwannem, I want to advise you. Learn to Say “NO” and focus on yourself. I am self centered right? Relax and get the gist.
I have spent my entire life being kind to people and where did it get me? Nowhere. People would only message me because they needed something and that sucked, until one day I said “NO”.
It was the best feeling in the world. Since then nobody has taken advantage of me. I have started to focus on MYSELF and my goals in life, because at the end of the day, the only person you can truly trust is yourself.
Your friends aren’t going to pay your bills for you. Thus, focus on yourself and focus on your own successes for a happier future.